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One of THE most common queries I get is, “Sir, HOW do I meet women NEAR me?”
Valid.

People are busy.

Studies, work, gym and what not. It is efficient to find ways to meet women near you, if you are not one for social media and dating apps.

Personally, I peg COLD APPROACH as the BEST method for meeting girls.

There is chemistry and eye contact and pheromones that are just absent when talking to people on-screen.

BEFORE you approach any girl, you need to have your BASICS down.

Fresh hair cut AT LEAST every 2 weeks.

Clothes in colours, cuts and fits that complement your body type (PLEASE don’t be the guy who has TEN colours in his outfit)

Cologne that YOU like AND fits the time of day and weather of the year.

ADULT shoes – clean and suiting your personality and style.

Accessories that match your vibe

And goes without saying – bathe, brush and floss your teeth, trim your nails, and body hair.

IF you want to take your dressing sense, cologne selection and grooming to the NEXT level, drop us a message using the contact us form, and we can talk about whether you are a good fit for our Personal Style and Grooming Session.

Good. Now that you have your basics sorted, let’s get this how on the road.

1) University and College Campuses

The NUMBER 1 place to find women who are not only OPEN but EAGER to meeting YOU is the local university and college campuses.

DO NOT COLD APPROACH IN YOUR OWN COLLEGE CAMPUS – rejection is common in cold-approach and you will QUICKLY develop a reputation.

Instead, go to OTHER colleges and universities or areas where extra classes tuition classes are ABUNDANT, the girls willing – and you are unlikely to meet anyone you KNOW.

2) UPSCALE Libraries and Bookstores

Notice I said UPSCALE libraries and bookstores.

These libraries are privately owned and operated and have expensive membership fees. Hence, the girls that come here are also from affluent families. Same goes for bookstores.

And the REASON I said “libraries” in the first place is because girls who frequent libraries and bookstores are more CEREBRAL – they are smarter.

Also, they are more inclined to be introverts – people who would rather spend time alone than partying.

If you are looking for shy, quiet, nerdy girls, visit your nearby libraries and bookshops. You may just find yourself starting to like books as well.

3) Cafes

It should go without saying, but I mean UPSCALE indi cafes – not those FAMOUS chain coffee places that are frequented by girls JUST to take pics and make reels for social media.

No, there are PLENTY of quaint cafes – you are just ONE search away from finding them.

Make a habit of visiting ONE new cafe every day – and you will get a feel for which places are frequented by the kinds of girls YOU like.

HINT – Cafes NEAR Unis and colleges are usually a GREAT place to start.

4) Members ONLY clubs

Members only clubs are the ones where ONLY people who have paid for a membership are allowed.

Needless to say, only people from affluent families go there. Every city has at least ONE such member only club.

See if you can join. It will make your job of finding girls from good families easier – AND improve your social life.

These can be a Golf Club, a health Club, Rotary Club, Defense Officers Club and so on.

5) Special Events

There may be special events in your city now and then – a play at a theatre, an art exhibit, a wine tasting event, a dog show – these are the type of occasions that girls with refined taste LOVE to attend.

You can simply search for them online, although there are those that are secret and invite only – so keep your social circle LARGE. The more high-end and exclusive the event, the higher the caliber of girls who attend.

Now that you know WHERE to go to meet women near you, let us help you with HOW to go up to these women and their friends, strike up a conversation, get her out on a date and MORE. You can start with the AWESOME FREE stuff on our products page OR you can Fastrack your progress by signing up for an invite to one our programs TAILORED FOR YOU – use the contact us form to get in touch if you want to take control of your LOVE LIFE!

WARNING: This is a WHAT TO DO guide on how to get over a breakup, NOT a feel-good write-up. IF you are clinically depressed or are contemplating self-harm, get PROFESSIONAL psychiatric help.

So you got DUMPED. Yeah – how do I know? Because you are a GUY – and girls do the dumping in 99% of the cases. Relax

There is a 99% chance you did NOTHING wrong, and the break-up up has NOTHING to do with YOU – girls make STUPID choices EVERY DAY.

Girls will leave GREAT guys – guys who LOVED them dearly, to go running after an a$$hole who she KNOWS is no good, or she simply wanted to sample a GREATER variety of d1cks.

And MAKE NO MISTAKE – she DID leave you for ANOTHER guy(S). Girls can NEVER be single by choice. They FIND your replacement MONTHS – sometimes YEARS before they dump you.

Which means – she was CHEATING on you for 6 – 8 months AT LEAST before she ACTUALLY ended it with you. And by cheating, I mean FCUKING OTHER GUYS.

Girls SOLIDIFY their hold on the next guy BEFORE they move on. THIS is why girls get a NEW guy SO quickly – she didn’t FIND him AFTER things ended with YOU – the guy (and others) was ALREADY there for a LONG time.

I know – HARD to hear – but better you hear it from me now than find out yourself later.

By now, you are REELING from what I have told you – I know I was when I first learned how girls operate.

Enough with the machinations of women

Let’s get to the point where I tell you HOW to get over a breakup.

Go meet new girls – a LOT of them.

That’s it.

I learnt this trick from girls themselves – there is a PRIVATE joke among girls.

How do you get OVER a guy?

By getting UNDER new ones.

LOL bhitha joke ke end mein

Pithy as it may seem – it works

The reason you are SO FIXATED on your ex, is because you haven’t given your brain OTHER girls to fixate ON!

Go out clubbing, set up online dating profiles, cold approach girls at the mall with your friends. Once you have just TALKED to 4-5 girls, you will feel much LIGHTER.

Give yourself a target of approaching, flirting and asking out at least ONE new girl a day for a WEEK.

And once you are regularly talking to new girls, you will realize that ALL girls are basically the same – there might be some differences in physicality and individual quirks, but they ALL make you feel the same way.

The reason you thought your ex was special was because of the IMAGE of her you had created in your head.

And it was the IMAGE of her that you fell for – not the person.

Girls are not SUGAR and SPICE and EVERYTHING NICE.

They are NOT ANGELS FROM HEAVEN.

They are human.

Women love OPPURTUNISTICALY – they see a guy they want MORE, they’ll leave you.

Men love IDEALISTICALLY

No one loves unconditionally. And that is how it SHOULD be – if love were unconditional, we would ALL be fat, lazy bums. No one would work out, eat right, earn money, or DO ANYTHING worthwhile.

Women love fit, rich, successful, charismatic men.

Which is why Men WANT to be fit, rich, successful, and charismatic.

You can complain about the unfairness of it.

Or you can use that to your advantage.

The trick to breaking a BAD habit – or an addiction, is NOT DISCIPLINE or SELF CONTROL, it is doing what you SHOULD have been doing in the first place.

e.g. someone with a p0rn habit might try to control it with DISCIPLINE. When instead they should be out picking up girls – after all – s3x and intimacy is why they watch p0rn, right?

My clients report that when they go talk to even ONE girl, they don’t feel like watching p0rn AT ALL that day!

She is also an ADDICTION.

As long as you were giving yourself COPIUS doses of her(drug), your brain was happy (dopamine)

But when she is no longer available, you are in EMOTIONAL PAIN, your brain is CLAMOURING for those dopamine hits.

You are showing STRONG WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS.

Just like when you have coffee every morning, and then one day you don’t, you feel IRRITATED and WANT to have that cup of coffee.

ALL you have to do, is give your brain DIFFERENT “drugs” to get its dopamine hit – and by drugs, I mean GIRLS.

As soon as you talk to other girls, you will feel MUCH better.

If you want help approaching girls, get in touch and let us help set YOU up for dating SUCCESS!

P.S. DO NOT take her back. Girls come back to you when they FAIL to replace you – meaning they guy(S) she left you for, only wanted to fcuk her – they did NOT see her worth a relationship – which is why she is back trying to “make things work”. NEVER take back a girl who left you – she will lose respect for you if you do, and HATE you for it, because now she is with a LOW VALUE MAN – since no self-respecting man would take back a girl who left him – this is just how girls think. Re-reading a book again will NOT change the ending – there is a REASON the relationship ended – let it be.

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How Do I Meet Women Near Me